Leading The Dance is designed as a problem-solving tool. Some of the
items will be used for the rest of the dog's life - we particularly
suggest the feeding regimen, possession, and the roadwork. Other items
will be done only until the dog understands his position in society.
When he graduates, release him from the items one at a time over a period
of several weeks, watching for him to go back to his old ways. Many
people do Leading The Dance one month in six as a preventative measure.
If there is any part of Leading The Dance that is liable to get you
bitten while you're doing it, DON'T DO IT and GET HELP from a competent
trainer!
1. Umbilical cord - As much as possible when you are
at home, keep the dog on leash and with you. Put a 6 foot leash on the
dog, and attach the other end of the leash to a sturdy belt around your
waist. Ignore the dog and go about your business. Having to constantly
watch what you do and where you go will not only bond the dog to you,
but will help make you important in his eyes.
2. Eye contact x 2 - twice a day, sit down with the
dog sitting between your knees, and use a command such as Watch Me,
or make funny noises, or tap the dog's nose and then your own, or whatever
you have to do to get eye contact.
3. Obedience x 2 - Twice a day, run quickly through
an obedience session using whatever the dog knows how to do, Sit, Down,
Come, Stay, Heel, repeat as needed. Train for a couple of minutes each
session. Do NOT touch the dog to praise him.
4. Feed x 2 - When food is left down for the dog to
eat ad lib, the dog owns the food. Ownership is what dominance is all
about, so we must take possession of the food. Feed the dog twice a
day, in a confined area such as a crate or the bathroom. Use a Feeding
Ritual. Ask him if he's hungry, ask him to help find his dish, to help
find the food, ask him again if he's hungry, tell him to go to his area
or get in his crate, give him the food. As soon as he's finished, or
as soon as he turns away from his food, or if he doesn't begin eating
immediately, take the dish away, throw away the food, and clean the
dish. If the dog is not successful at eating (doesn't eat his whole
meal), give him half the regular amount at his next meal, until he is
cleaning the bottom of the dish. A successful meal means he gets more
at his next meal, until he is eating the amount that will keep him in
optimum condition. The food must be high-quality and low-bulk. Water
should be freely available all day. Give no treats in the food or by
hand. Dogs love rituals and you are teaching his body to get ready to
eat when he hears the beginning of the ritual.
5. Possession is 9/10 of the Law - At least once a
day, handle the dog. Repeat the words These are my ears! This is my
paw! This is my muzzle! This is my tail! as you handle him. If he fusses,
go slower. It's important that the dog has a positive experience - that
he comes to see that you will be handling him and it's of no concern
to him. When he is completely relaxed and accepts your ownership, say
OK and release him. If your dog will not allow you to handle him like
this without getting angry or getting away, DO NOT do this exercise.
Do the rest of the exercises and use the clicker to teach the dog to
allow this handling later.
6. Long Down-Stay - Do one 30-minute Down-Stay every
day. You can watch TV but the dog must be in plain sight and you must
be aware of him. He can roll over, go to sleep, and look annoyed or
bored, but he cannot get up or walk away.
7. I'm-The-Mommy Down - At least once a day, just because
you felt like it, tell the dog to lie down. When he does, use your voice
only to tell him he did a good job, say Okay, and walk away.
8. Bosshood Is In The Eye Of The Beholder - Consider
life from the dog's point of view. He sleeps where he wants, he eats
when he wants, he leads you around. Any wonder he gets the impression
that he's the Boss? Don't allow him to go through doors ahead of you.
Don't allow him to go up or down stairs ahead of you. Don't allow him
to lead you down hallways. Always position him or yourself so you are
leading and he is following. If he's lying down, don't walk around him.
Put your feet on the floor and shuffle right through him (note you don't
kick the dog, merely push him gently out of the way) - make him think
about where you are and what you're doing. When he orders you to let
him out, take charge of going outside. Build a ritual around the door.
Focus his attention on you: Do you want to go out? Sit! When he sits,
you go to the door. Want to go out? Sit. Down. Sit. Stay. Then open
the door and order him out: Okay, go outside! You change the situation
so you are in charge of it. Keep the dog on the floor. Not on the couch,
not on the chair, not halfway up the stairs surveying his domain, not
in your lap, not on the car seat. On the floor. Don't leave the dog
loose in the house or yard when you're not home. Free run of the house
when the Boss isn't home allows the dog to feel powerful and in charge.
Don't allow the dog to sleep on your bed, or on a child's bed. Dogs
recognize the bed as a throne for the Boss. If he sleeps away from you,
however, he will think that you own the bedroom, but he owns the rest
of the house. The dog should sleep in your bedroom. If you can't have
him sleeping in your bedroom (allergies, for instance), confine him
to his crate.
9. Work Off Energy - Roadwork the dog 4 days a week.
Start small, but work up to a mile for small dogs, 2 miles for medium
dogs, and 3 miles for large dogs. Many problems will disappear with
no more effort than roadworking. You can jog with the dog, or ride a
bike, or longe him with a Flexilead, or use a motorised trike, or lend
him to a jogger who's afraid of being mugged.
10. Busy Hands Are Happy Hands - If you want to pet
the dog, he must first do pushups - Sit, Down, Sit, Down, Sit, Down,
Sit, Down - then you can pet him for a count of 5 only. He never gets
petted because he wants to be or because he demands it, only because
you want to and he earns it. Then you pet him for only a moment, and
turn away with him wanting more.
11. My Game, My Rules - Give the dog only one toy.
If he wants to chase the toy, bring it to you and let you have it, throw
it again. If he won't chase it, or won't give it to you, turn your back
and walk away. He has two choices, he can play with you and the toy,
or he can play with the toy alone. Do not, under any circumstances,
play tug-of-war. When you can get the toy without chasing him or playing
tug, pick it up and put it away.
12. Eliminate Hormones - Have problem dogs neutered.
Some problems will solve themselves with no more effort than this. Not
only will the dog be healthier and easier to live with, but your life
will be made simpler.